Nice guys try to please women because their happiness is dependent on women. Their attempts to please women they are really attempts to make themselves happy- women are the judges and distrubtors of happiness for them.
They’re dogs who wag their tails and are thrilled to here the cooing of a woman’s voice telling them what a “Good boy” they are for doing as they were commanded.
It is impossible to please a woman. Fulfill a demand and it is only a matter of time until she appoints you another task to fulfill. With a woman’s happiness you are sysiphyus endlessly pushing the boulder up the hill. Eternally struggling yet getting nowhere. Worse yet, fulfilling those demands are, in and of themselves, the hallmark of beta behavior and will dry her panties and drive her away.
The smart man knows that he is far better off determining the criteria of his own happiness then letting a woman be the arbiter who dictates the terms of it.
Nice Guy = Slave Morality
Smart Guy = Master Morality
Never work to please a woman. She should be thrilled to be around someone as wonderful as you. If she tries to “change’ (control) you- tell her to stop trying to control you (they hate it when you call a spade a spade- it kills their little game).
If she persists tell her that if she dosen’t like it she’s free to leave at any time.