The man of higher status, a man who’s wife sees as “alpha”, is going to create constant competition anxeity in a wife regardless of the title and supposed security that the legally binding title gives her.
I think women are designed to want to constantly and consistently fuck their man when they think that their is a chance that a competitor female will try to steal their man, and source of security, away from them; women feel more raw lust towards their man under such circumstances.
The secret in marriage is to be the one denying sex and being seen as the object of desire; its similar to the attitude displated in the book “Pimp”; be the one that they’re chasing and trying to win the approval of and you’ll have the upper hand. You need to be one step ahead and thinking of how to keep the coals stoked and how to be in control- that is the plight of man.
As they said in the Godfather- only women and children can afford to be carefree- us men must be constantly focused on all aspects of our life- wheather it be our jobs, family, wives, or friends. There is no rest for us if we want to succeed, if we want to win.