I think one of the fundamental excuses that guys (myself in particular) give themselves is that of not having enough time to go out and find women. So, they sit get home… and they waste their time.
Days, weeks, months, years of life go by. They watch this TV show or that movie or play a different video game. Then they wonder why their sex lives stink and they look on with envy/hate at guys with a high notch count.
This is the fundamental difference between men and boys.
Men decide what they want, and then they get it. They suffer, they fail then they conquer.
Boys wish- they’re like women and little girls.
“I wish I had a girl friend”
“I wish I got laid more often”
“I wish I was in better shape”
“I wish I got more looks from the girls”
All things that a man can decide that he wants and can achieve with time, effort, and consistent application.
Want to meet girls? Make time to be at the places where they frequent.
Want to be in better shape? Make time to go to the gym.
Want to get checked out by women? Buy some better clothes.
Men find a way to make things happen. Boys play X-box all night before jerking themselves off.