Exploiting Violence Proxies

If you observe male animals in the wild you’ll see that they fight for mating rights to females. 

Bull Moose, Rams, Lions, Chimps… all are asserting their superiority and breeding rights over females.The clash of horns, the roars, the chest pounding- all of it is to see which is the superior male that deserves to mate.  The order of operations of this behavior is usually as follow:

A challenge is issued. The two males try to intimidate each other- if one doesen’t back off they will fight for supremacy.  In the state of nature strength, status, and willpower determine the order of the mating heirarchy. 

Basically speaking there are two methods of resolving a question of superiority between two males

1. Resolution via intimidation

2. Resolution via violence

Humans have the same behavioral substructure built within their hindbrain. 

  In human beings, the challenge is public insults.  A failure to respond to an insult is a failure to rise to a challenge- it’s surrender in the male mating dance before the fight has even begun.  A failure to respond to an insult is a direct blow to ranking within the status heirarchy and consequently a decrease in social power and mating opportunities.  

That is why males react and have a very visceral emotional reaction to insults.  Its why ghetto thugs will kill each other over “disrespect” and why fights start in bars.  The men “know” that failure to respond, either with a chest pounding of their own or with violence, will result in the surrounding women seeing them as weak and inferior- and consequently mating with their rivals.

Human soceity has thrown a wrench in the gears of this little mechanism- namely retaliatory violence proxies.  These proxies (Police, Bouncers, etc) both intimidate and brutally repress the “resolution via violence” system of the alpha male social heirarchy.

“Assholes” exploit this in social situations.  They know that they’re protected by these violence proxies-  they’re free from having to back up their heirarchal challenges with the promise of “resolution via violence” if the challenge is answered and the “resolution via intimidation” fails;  so they insult/degrade the males around them with impunity.  Most males are too “polite” to respond with a chest pounding verbal volley of their own back at the asshole, and fear to respond with violence because of the violence proxies- so they, in the eyes of women, appear weak;  too afraid to rise to the verbal challenge of the Asshole male. 

 The Asshole wins the heirarchal challenge and gets laid by the surrounding women as a result.

Crying

Never assume a crying woman’s tears are genuine.

Never assume that a woman is sorry for what she did, she’s sorry that you’re leaving or that she got caught.

Instant Pre-selection

Be caught looking/light flirting every once in a while- deny it fi she makes an issue of it.
Talk to other chicks on the phone in front of her.
Leave the little “taken” clues that women leave around your house/car there (scrunchies, earrings, etc); if they no woman has done this- buy some and do it yourself.
Don’t answer your phone at suspicious times every once in a while; make up a bad excuse as to why.
Hickies (if you’re into that sort of thing and you’re not exclusive)
“Forget” to clean up before she comes over- leave out two marini glasses and the bottle- one with lipstick marks on it
Take some hair from a brush from a chick with different hair color then hers- leave a few obvious strands where you know she’ll see them.
Leave some empty condom wrappers on top of your bathroom trash; if you haven’t ****ed in a while- just throw out the condoms somewhere else and leave the wrappers

Basicially anything that makes her think that you’re boning other chicks, even if you’re not.

Women flip the script for frame control

Beautiful women love to play innocent and blame their “significant other” for being “paranoid”, “over protective”, or “jealous” (fill in the blank) when they go out on their scandalous adventeurs… also known as girls night out.

If they admitted the truth then their SO would have some right to object. By denying the truth and calling it “harmless fun with the girlfriends” they can put the shame on the SO for objecting while putting him on the defensive… all while they continue to go about their whorish ways.

They keep the frame and the power AND get to do what they want.

Good Girls

So many men think they have good girls… why?

They give many reasons- but they can be summed up as because their girls told them they were.

Women are deceiptful, self cenetered, selfish, manipulative, and trecherous. Don’t trust a word that comes out of their mouth when they talk about their sexual history. When they tell you their “sexual history” you’re not reading the book of their life- you’re reading a propaganda phamphlet designed to ensare you and reel you into the cause.

Want to know what the real history is? Get the chick REALLY drunk. Play it cool; don’t be judgemental- play the role and listen. You’ll find out the sort of wretched prostitute you’re idealizing and putting on a pedastol.

***Warning***

Your rose colored fairtale version of reality, aka The Matrix, may not survive when you learn that a girl who LOOKS pretty and acts innocent is, most likely, a filthy whore.

Commitment means nothing to women

When the average man commits he thinks his woman will reciprocate out of a sense loyalty.

That is not how the world works.

We truely live in a world where up is down. Left if gang bang and I love you is I slept with your best friend. We’ve been fed nothing but pretty lies.

The only thing that keeps a woman loyal, to any degree, is the amount of emotion she has toward you. The “commitment” you show towards her means nothing.

In actuality it  makes her less loyal beause you will become less of a challenge and seen as less alpha.

Refusing to commit and having multiple girls will keep you on your toes because you’re always ready to walk and call her on her shit at anytime.

The Alpha male jealousy female insecurity dynamic; exploit it to your maximum advantage - it makes the whores want you more and ladies want to stay. It will get you more poon and respect then all the flowers and choclates in the world.

PS- the ladies are whores at heart too- they just lie about it.

You’ve been lied to since childhood

The hardest thing that anyone has to accept when breaking free of the Matrix of modern soceity is that they’ve been lied to since childhood.

Everything that they’ve been taught that is “bad” for a man to do (be a jerk, date/sleep with multiple women, make her jealous, look out for our own interests first, listen to our thoughts and opinions and ignore hers when she stops her little feet, etc) is actually the right thing to do if you want lots of sex or even a happy and successful relationship.

I’ve seen with my own two eyes that when you bark orders at a woman, treat her like she’s easily replacable, laugh at her demands, and otherwise treat her like garbage then she’ll happily lick your feet clean and ask for seconds.

Yet if you take that same woman and then start being nice, calling all the time, telling her you love her all the time, take her to dinner every night, etc (basically doing all the AFC things that you’ve been taught by “soceity” (TV and movies) to do since you were a kid) you’ll quickly find that those feelings of “infinite unending love” and “we’re soulmates meant to be together for life” will disappear faster then you can say “what the hell just happened” and she’ll have a heart of Ice towards you. Its extremely counter-intuitive…. the fact that the social reinforcement flows almost completely in the AFC direction makes it even harder to identify these facts- let alone change your behavior.

Hot is all that matters

Men are judged by the hotness and quantity of the women they bang- not the moral character of said women.

Men would rather bang a scandalous lying slut who’s a 10 then a 2 with a heart of gold. And really- that says it all. All these morality crusaders are critical of women and their “moral flaws” and admonish men who use them for what they’re good for- but yet they have NO problem nexting girls strickly on appearence, the superficial- judging the book by its cover. Its pure hypocracy and self deceit.

Beauty is the primary value. Find it and exploit it- its rare enough as it is.
If the secondary values disqualify from LTR fine- but don’t pretend that they carry enough weight that they actually affect the primary value that a woman is judged on.

Be the master, not the dog

Nice guys try to please women because their happiness is dependent on women. Their attempts to please women they are really attempts to make themselves happy- women are the judges and distrubtors of happiness for them.

They’re dogs who wag their tails and are thrilled to here the cooing of a woman’s voice telling them what a “Good boy” they are for doing as they were commanded.
It is impossible to please a woman. Fulfill a demand and it is only a matter of time until she appoints you another task to fulfill. With a woman’s happiness you are sysiphyus endlessly pushing the boulder up the hill. Eternally struggling yet getting nowhere. Worse yet, fulfilling those demands are, in and of themselves, the hallmark of beta behavior and will dry her panties and drive her away.

The smart man knows that he is far better off determining the criteria of his own happiness then letting a woman be the arbiter who dictates the terms of it.

Nice Guy = Slave Morality
Smart Guy = Master Morality

Never work to please a woman. She should be thrilled to be around someone as wonderful as you. If she tries to “change’ (control) you- tell her to stop trying to control you (they hate it when you call a spade a spade- it kills their little game).

 If she persists tell her that if she dosen’t like it she’s free to leave at any time.